Self-Injury
Self-injury is the
act of deliberately destroying body tissue, at times to change a way of
feeling. Self-injury is seen differently by groups and cultures within
society. This appears to have become more popular lately, especially in
adolescents. The causes and severity of self-injury can vary. Some forms
may include:
- carving
- scratching
- branding
- marking
- picking, and
pulling skin and hair
- burning/abrasions
- cutting
- biting
- head banging
- bruising
- hitting
- tattooing
- excessive body
piercing
Some adolescents
may self-mutilate to take risks, rebel, reject their parents' values,
state their individuality or merely be accepted. Others, however, may
injure themselves out of desperation or anger to seek attention, to show
their hopelessness and worthlessness, or because they have suicidal thoughts.
These children may suffer from serious psychiatric problems such as depression,
psychosis, Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Bipolar Disorder.
Additionally, some adolescents who engage in self-injury may develop Borderline
Personality Disorder as adults. Some young children may resort to self-injurious
acts from time to time but often grow out of it. Children with mental
retardation and/or autism may also show these behaviors which may persist
into adulthood. Children who have been abused or abandoned may self-mutilate.
Why do adolescents
self-injure?
Adolescents who have difficulty talking about their feelings may show
their emotional tension, physical discomfort, pain and low self-esteem
with self-injurious behaviors. Although they may feel like the "steam"
in the "pressure cooker" has been released following the act
of hurting themselves, teenagers may instead feel hurt, anger, fear and
hate. The effects of peer pressure and contagion can also influence adolescents
to injure themselves. Even though fads come and go, most of the wounds
on the adolescents' skin will be permanent. Occasionally, teenagers may
hide their scars, burns and bruises due to feeling embarrassed, rejected
or criticized about their deformities.
What can parents
and teenagers do about self-injury?
Parents are encouraged to talk with their children about respecting and
valuing their bodies. Parents should also serve as role models for their
teenagers by not engaging in acts of self-harm. Some helpful ways for
adolescents to avoid hurting themselves include learning to:
- accept reality
and find ways to make the present moment more tolerable.
- identify feelings
and talk them out rather than acting on them.
- distract themselves
from feelings of self-harm (for example, counting to ten,
waiting 15 minutes, saying "NO!" or "STOP!," practicing
breathing
exercises, journaling, drawing, thinking about positive images, using
ice and
rubber bands, etc.)
- stop, think,
and evaluate the pros and cons of self-injury.
- soothe themselves
in a positive, non-injurious, way.
- practice positive
stress management.
- develop better
social skills.
Evaluation by a
mental health professional may assist in identifying and treating the
underlying causes of self-injury. Feelings of wanting to die or kill themselves
are reasons for adolescents to seek professional care emergently. A child
and adolescent psychiatrist can also diagnose and treat the serious psychiatric
disorders that may accompany self-injurious behavior.
Information provided
by the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 2003
U-M
Health System Related Site:
Department of Psychiatry
U-M
Depression Center
U-M
Your Child: Development and Behavior Resources
Other
Related Site:
AACAP -
Facts for Families
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