Normal Development: 10 Years Old

Physical Development

• physical growth and development varies enormously among this age group
• is energetic and spirited
• is usually awkward
• strives to be physically fit
• is fascinated with how the body works
• may be curious about drugs, alcohol, and tobacco
• continues to revel in bathroom humor

Emotional Development

• fluctuates between dependent child and independent pre-teen
• becomes increasingly self-conscious

Social Development

• seeks approval for being "good" from significant people
• becomes preoccupied with the opposite sex
• relates to peer group intensely and abides by group decisions
• succumbs to peer pressure more readily
• does not want to be "different"
• continues to participate in small groups of same sex
• confides constantly in best friend
• can be fickle

Mental Development

• is eager to learn and master new skills
• is proud of doing things well
• is concerned about personal capabilities
• has internalized standards of right and wrong to some degree

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. Consequently, these guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend. Keep this in mind as you review these milestones.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.